After reading Haylee’s post I come to the conclusion that this is a real problem for many people, all I can say is Hay lee you do what you think is best for you, but to get out and do something else rather then just scrapping is health because scrapping will always be there when you get home.
Well as you are aware I have given up Scrapbooking, I too don't do any socialising, because I find it hard myself feeling a little left out in the dark, I get very nervous if I don’t really know the person/s, I have never been the person to go out, not that anyone would know that everyone thinks we all have a social life but the truth to it is that we only go out when Hay lee baby sit our kids and that isn’t real often I have never been the one to go out and party because I just think everyone thinks i’m a dork, I cant dance I don’t drink, what a bore most I be, all my friends and family don’t spend time with me anymore and I have just come to the conclusion that i’m just cant keep up with anyone anymore and doing what they want to do or say what they want to hear so I do what’s best for me and that is to withdraw from it all and stick to myself, for me life goes on I have 2 beautiful children and a wonderful supporting husband that I have to keep well looked after and if that means having no social life then that’s what it takes.
As Cass said in her post on Haylee’s blog" As someone who is currently suffering depression I know how easy it is to try and cover up your problems instead of solve them" this is so true take a little word from me this is what has happened to me, you just let everyone talk about you and give you advise but they have know idea what your thinking or going through and for someone to turn around and slap you in the face right in the admits of it well guess what life goes on. I too have moved on with my life and I miss each and everyone that I don’t see anymore but I have to think of myself and my ever changing family which is going to be a hurdle in my life and its not what we planed but i’m sure i’m going to cope I may fall down a few times but my darling husbands here to pick me up again when I think life is getting to tough for me and that’s all I need is for him to except me for who I am and not what i’m not.
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Thankyou for sharing this simone. I can relate to so much of what you're saying. It's amazing that when you share things, you find that so many people have had the same experiences, so I am so glad that you have shared this. And yes, your life will get considerably harder when those twins come, but your wonderful husband will always be there. And of course, I will always be there to babysit anytime!
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